How lovers act when they fall out of love 

“He doesn’t seem to care anymore,” is how you describe it.  Perhaps true as it is so hard to fake emotions especially if you’ve been used to seeing the guy for maybe years.

The reality is, people may fall in and out of love with each other throughout the course of their relationship. The earlier you’ve noticed these signs, better ready yourself of the reality.  Move on until you can and still have that respect and love toward the guy.  It will make parting ways easier than leaving him all bitter.

Sharing with you warning signs on how lovers act when they fall out of love.

How lovers act when they fall out of love 
How lovers act when they fall out of love

Do not care anymore

You will feel it.  His affection for you is slowly dying. He acts as if he lost interest in you and anything that concerns you. He does not care as well even if you fight all the time.  Nor he makes effort to resolve any misunderstandings.

Physical attraction is gone

He does not compliment your looks anymore, signaling that the physical attraction that once brought you together was all gone.  Even the crazy and intimate things he used to do behind closed doors are all gone.

The romantic excitement is gone

How lovers act when they fall out of love 
How lovers act when they fall out of love

Remember when you used to buy him small stuff and he was head over heels thankful for the gesture? Those moments are gone.  He is no longer moved by the surprises you do for him. He does not even appreciate the little details you say, do or give because the romantic excitement is gone.

Communication dies off

Gone are the days that you would talk and laugh for hours either in person or over the phone.  Even those sweet nothings through text just faded away and are replaced by “k” or a simple “no”   answer.  He lost interest in texting and calling. You aren’t aware anymore of his wants and needs and so does him to you.

No more time

People in love would always want to be with their loved ones.  A person inspired would certainly create time for you no matter what.  But as love turns sour, he would prefer to be alone or with his pals.  It is because he does not find spending time with you as fun just like before.

No more sweet nothings

He used to buy your favorite bread and drop by your place just to give the pastry to you.  Or he goes the extra mile just to make you happy.  But when those surprises and sweet acts stopped, it means he just does not care anymore.  For him, everything seems so boring and mundane.

No more concern about your feelings or mood

He isn’t sensitive anymore of your reaction or feelings if he did something that would piss you off.  He no longer apologizes for the wrongs he did.  If ever he said sorry, it appeared so indifferent or forced just to appease you.

How lovers act when they fall out of love

How lovers act when they fall out of love 
How lovers act when they fall out of love

Seeing these telltale signs in your relationship shows that the love has turned sour.  It is time to reevaluate your relationship and ask yourself if you would like to save it or otherwise.  Perhaps you’ve been acting the same way too and everything appears mutual.  Then make it official that you would rather end your relationship until there is still a little respect and love left.

Berlin Domingo

Devoted. Compassionate. Instinctive. Berlin loves to write personal narratives, thrilling discoveries, and mommy tips that make daily living the happiest. She shares a place called the small house with her husband and their four boys.